i_used_to_be_cool

Hugs to any & all of you that are hurting right now! I don't really know what's going on, because this is the only forum I go to. I don't understand FB, nor do I know of any of the other forums you ladies frequent, so I have NO clue what has happened here. I am super busy right now with Jack (& me) being sick (again!), some Ebaying, my Etsy store, and my new moms group, so I have not been here. I'll try to figure out the gist of this SMS thing when I have more time, but for right now I am not gone... just busy.

bratbrey

Sarah I am so so sorry that you are hurting so badly. I have not been around much but I want you to know I am thinking of you. Bigs hugs to you my friend.

brandanaleighana

Sarah,
I'm really sorry that you are hurting. I wish you could see all of this support and feel comforted. You and your family will be in my prayers for a very long time. I pray that during your darkest moments God can be a light and source of comfort for you. I'm really sorry that I can't be here anymore. I have personal reasons for that and you are not the reason or the blame. I hope that in the future you can come around and rekindle old friendships. I know for a fact that among your friends there is much sorrow and regret and desire for forgiveness and friendship.
My heart and prayers stay with you, even if I am physically not here.

morgan27

Sarah - I just read your closed post and wanted to respond so I am here. I hope you are still reading this. I didnt get a chance to read DH's post yesterday til halfway through the day and after that didnt have time to be online much at all. I havent been online much for the past, almost, 2 weeks. Life has been busy. I do want to say that I think the entire situation is unfortunate, however I am still sort of lost. I dont feel like I have a good understanding of what really happened because most of its not being shared. Which is totally fine, that is private stuff between those invovled and I dont need to know the details. But without knowing the details I can make any sort of sense out of what happend. I would not judge anyone in any case because that isnt my place to do.

I appreciate that you and your DH have spent your time, money and love in this site and was excied to find you guys again after so long and get back in touch with old friends. I am sad this has happened and things have been torn apart and from where I am I am not blaming anyone for that. I dont think you or your DH are monsters - I dont even know him to judge him that way. I do think you are a very generous and kind person whom I have *known* for going on 7 years. Throughout that time you have been a great friend to me. You helped me through an extremely difficult time after my m/c 4 years ago andI will never forget that.

I am praying for you and your marriage and in your shoes I would most certainly choose my DH over ANYTHING else other than God. Marriage is a covinant. Hang in there and know that you havent lost all of your friends.