dbn13

Sarah - I hope you're still reading this thread and feeling the love. I just want to encourage you and the DH during this time. I know this whole situation has affected you both tremendously and I can't imagine the stress you are under right now. Hang in there!

lizzydo

Sarah,

I just read your most recent post...I'm so sorry for the heartache this has caused you. I admire your DH for trying to protect you and "fix" things...that's the way men think and it shows how much he cares for you.

You both have developed a marvelous community. There have been some lessons learned this week. People will come and go...hopefully, some will return and friendships can be repaired...

Just know that I'm here for you...hoping time will heal some of your pain.

xo

sarahxb

(((((Sarah)))))

KiwiMama

(((Sarah))) I hope that today is a better day.

cece

Thinking of you Sarah......

anamcharas

Sarah, I have no place to comment excpet to say that I am so sorry that you are hurting. There are no monsters. I understand 100% why you are here.

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JenR

I was about to write the same thing.

Carol in Maryland

No matter what has happened already, or what may happen going forward, know that you are in my prayers, Sarah.

nelaurad

I struggled with whether to say this on the board or just email Sarah privately....I put it here to just be open. I caught up on everything last night and decided to sleep on it before really deciding how I feel about it. Enough about me.

Sarah, I am sorry this happened to you and sad for all the ways you've been hurt by this. I would never think of you as a monster, nor would I use that word to describe your husband. I am going to refrain from judgment about him, both positive and negative, because I don't know him. What I do know is that you are an intelligent, caring woman, and that you have the strength and ability to do what you need to do for your own happiness. I support you in all your roles - as a friend, a mom and a wife.

I'm also sad that things have blown up like this and hope that everyone can heal, whether it's with friendships intact or moving on separately.

Finally, Sarah, I appreciate the time, effort and money you spent on making this community for us.

I haven't really decided what do...stay or go, be on multiple boards...I might just take the opportunity to scale back a bit and spend less time on the internet. I've felt conflicted about how much time I spend here - there is true value in nurturing real friendships, which is what we do, but at the same time I need to do a better job of focusing on life off the computer. Easier said than done.

Anyway, love and hugs, Sarah.

_Sue_

I can't respond to your closed thread, Sarah, so I'll reply here. Please know I harbour no ill-will toward S. I want only the best for you and your whole family. (((Ks)))