I'm really frustrated with Bubbs. We had a good day. No major meltdowns, no fights, we had fun today. And then, it all changed.
We were at Sam's club. The plan was to go out for ice cream afterwards, (a treat because it was at the dairy - best ice cream. I've been saving calories all day to go. That is my own personal rant though) Bubbs wasn't listening and running the isles. Finally,
DH grabbed him and told him no more if he wanted ice cream.
DS hauls off and slaps Fred right across the butt. No ice cream. We were headed to the check out, he will not stop begging for finger paints. I go over to him and put him on the bench at the end of check out and tell him to in "that voice" he had better stay there and straighten out. We pay and walk to the car. From that point on, he hates me, then dh, then both us.
We get home, I get his teeth brushed and put him to bed. Then he loves me and is sorry. Then he wants to see Fred. He tells Fred he is sorry and I put him back in bed.
Only, Fred comes in the house and is there talking to him!!! Grrrrrrrrr! WTF? Make me the bad guy - again! Ugh! I am so angry with them both. Bubbs for acting like a sticker and being so mean and Fred for making me the bad guy again. We've talked about this a million times. He agrees with me, but then can't stand to have him mad at him.
So much for my good day. A pissy kid and a discussion I have to have AGAIN with
DH.
Sorry, this is just a vent.
He hates me, again 
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